Shaping Mind Software

When I was a child, I was scared of darkness and strangers. I used to afraid of ghost, I struggled to find things and used to shout or became anxious and impatience. With time, I learnt when there is a dark, switch on the light.  I have learnt an art how to smile at strangers and make friendship. I have learnt that Ghost is in mind, also becoming impatience is not the solution and now easily i find the stuff. All these took years, with fully developed mind (brain cells) & experiences many things are not same so neither me. So in my journey, I know One day I will reach to the highest possible level and so everyone will too. I am accepting everyone's ignorance same as mine.  I am at peace. I am strong. every moment, I am growing, growing and growing. During cyclone, wind or storm, I might shake, I might shiver but I know all these are like dark tunnel. at the end of the tunnel, there is light, bright light and I welcome that light inside me.  we all are walking towards ...

  There are many situations in life where you cannot act on your mood. For example, if you’re in a plane and suddenly you feel you don’t want to continue the journey, though your mood has changed halfway you cannot get out of the plane! You've got to be there. It’s not a car that you’re driving where you can turn back. Even for the car you have to find the exit where you can turn back. You can’t turn anywhere. So, life teaches you hard lessons if you don’t respect wisdom. Know that life goes with commitment, not moods. Moods are very unstable. They come, they change. But commitment and wisdom always bring the best results. -Sri Sri Ravishankar

  When someone misbehave in an emotional conflict. First of all understand why do we misbehave? We all misbehave at some point of time. less or more is not a questions but we should try and understand our pattern about why and when do we misbehave? 1. emotional pain => root cause is any form of negative feeling (fear, jealousy, sadness, loneliness,  2. when another person is not getting or doing as per our expectations. our reactions are: anger, frustration or anxiety. Think, How do we feel if someone gives back anger, frustration or anxiety when we are already in emotional pain? Now let's check your own life. go to your childhood's special memories lanes. (no matter how miserable your childhood, there must be few special memories) When being a child, you made a mistake or misbehaved because of fear, frustration, anger or anxiety. Later your realized it was your fault. Later you felt scared, you cried, you felt guilt but then adult in your house/school/neighbours respond...

If there is rain, we put on raincoat or take umbrella.  If hot summar, we protect ourselves from sunburn.  If snowey winter, we put on warm coat. If sunami, we seek help to survive. manage some rescue plan. We adjust with challenge nature throw on us.  Life is simple and easy. wisdom is to know what tools we need when? Seek help from whom and when?  Wisdom is recognise our real problem, work on it's real solution. We do adjust with nature, similarly we have ability to adjust with given situation/challenges.