Shaping Mind Software

  When someone misbehave in an emotional conflict. First of all understand why do we misbehave? We all misbehave at some point of time. less or more is not a questions but we should try and understand our pattern about why and when do we misbehave? 1. emotional pain => root cause is any form of negative feeling (fear, jealousy, sadness, loneliness,  2. when another person is not getting or doing as per our expectations. our reactions are: anger, frustration or anxiety. Think, How do we feel if someone gives back anger, frustration or anxiety when we are already in emotional pain? Now let's check your own life. go to your childhood's special memories lanes. (no matter how miserable your childhood, there must be few special memories) When being a child, you made a mistake or misbehaved because of fear, frustration, anger or anxiety. Later your realized it was your fault. Later you felt scared, you cried, you felt guilt but then adult in your house/school/neighbours respond...

Do you think ‘Effective communication we need only in corporate or in business?’ It is crucial in personal as well as professional relationship.  It is very important to nurture it in kids since baby age.  I believe, we enjoy so much when our kids start speaking few words. Their initial few words ‘ba, ma, da’ is precious moments, eventually they start speaking words and then sentences but what our responsibilities as a parent is to guide them or to help them for effective communication. What to do for that? Our response matters. I am sharing 2 recent incidents/case study which shows how they become effective in communication. It is simple Help them understand others Help them analyse the situation. We are so busy in our thoughts or in our conversation with someone sometime we miss important response which eventually shape our kids minds to think in a right ways. Case study 1:  My 3 year old son was wearing colorful dinosaur trouser,...