Typical characteristic of any toddler is their Tantrum. More often parents loose their temper in the process of soothing their toddler or child. Why? What should we do? How should we react? Now, it is very important to understand their frustration and be firm and calm. Why they show Tantrum? when they show Tantrum? Lets do some mind exercise: Understand and accept problem/challenge Tantrums are a normal part of child development. young children show that they 're upset or frustrated. Solution for this problem? Set a goal: So now when we accept it as a phase, we can think 'It is a challenge or lesson we are teaching them 'how to deal with a situation which upset us.' How we can solve this problem or can show them right ways? Now when we are clear in our mind that what we need to deliver as an effective parent we can analyse the situation and can think different ways. Steps: Most of the parents says, to be calm, firm. Ooof, we all k...
We bought a house. Generally we all feel joy, happiness associated with it and we do celebrate such occasion too. But this time when someone asked me, when are you shifting? Something changed within. The whole house moment process took me to another level of my thinking. It always sounds exciting and like everyone’s dream it was our dream too to have a house with decent space for small Derasar (the place we worship). But surprisingly in this whole process I am becoming more soul conscious then before. That buying a house we spent so much time, energy. From valuation to solicitor's questions and then bank approval, too much of work. Infect team work when we actually wants to feel it as a home. In this whole process since couple of months, this time I was constantly thinking that ‘what about the moment when I will shift from this body. Will I get this much of time to be aware of bank (universal power’s ) approval to get good, better house (body, parents, education) then this exi...
My 4 year boy today morning in conversation with his daddy. Daddy to V: ‘practice makes men perfect’. V to Daddy: Then what makes women perfect? It sounds funny, and we laughed. But Mother in me, Teacher in me couldn’t stop my self, analysing his way of paying attention to what he listen. My observation was: He is spontaneous, He is confident, He is quick in counter-questioning. He is brilliant at this age But He pays attention to actual details? NO. he pays attention to literal meaning. Curiosity is different then counter-questioning. There is thin line. Maybe with time, when kids learn to pay attention to meaning of the phrase, they get the real idea behind such saying. Can we actually teach them? Is exam or remembering details can teach that? My mind swings to some real-life examples where in few of them struggle with wisdom vs knowledg...
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