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Anger because of negative emotions like hate, jealousy, greed, ego is generally accumulate more negative karmic matter. Anger because of lack of inability of expressions like toddler’s tantrum is more likely get right help and move on mature path. It is similar to a doctor who is in operation room and patient dies but they get less karmic bondage and can free from it because of intention is not to murder someone instead save someone’s life. Intention matters in every single emotions and thoughts at karmic level. However anger out of mithyadrasti and ignorance to make someone feel low, blame or criticism is considered heavy karmic bondage.  Passive Anger is more danger and lead to heavy karmic bondage. Passive anger is aggressive behaviour might include avoiding direct or clear  communication , evading problems, fear of intimacy or competition, making excuses, blaming others, obstructionism, playing the victim, feigning compliance with requests, sarcasm, backhanded compli...

  When I am in focus, everything seems tiny and behind me, that is called self love :)  Illusion. but relative reality😜😊 I Love myself, I respect my smile. I connect myself with divine power within me and outside me. who has given me power to smile, I bow down to that governing power. I am my best friend. I am thankful to all good and bad comes in my way. Again it is Illusion but relative reality. 😜😊 I am happy or I am Joyful, when I remove 'I' then only happiness and only Joyful state.  That is real connection with Universal power.  Then only eternal happiness, eternal joy. That is real. rest all is relative🙏

  A few years ago, my friend had just crossed age 50. Just about 8 days later she was struck with an ailment ... And she died swiftly. In the group we received a condolence message that ..."Sad .. she is no more with us"... *RIP*  🙏 Two months later I called her husband. A thought crossed my mind ..he must be devastated as he had a travelling job. Till her death she would oversee everything.. home.. education of their children... Taking care of the aged in-laws.. their sickness.. managing relatives.. _*everything, everything, everything*_ She would express at times.." my house needs my time, .. my hubby cant even make coffee tea, my family needs me for everything, but no one cares or appreciates the efforts i put in. I feel they all take me for granted ". I called her husband to see if the family needed any support, as, i felt her hubby must be feeling lost.. to suddenly have to handle all the responsibilities, for evetything.. aging parents, Kids, his travelling j...

My 4 year boy today morning in conversation with his daddy. Daddy to V: ‘practice makes men perfect’. V to Daddy: Then what makes women perfect? It sounds funny, and we laughed. But Mother in me, Teacher in me couldn’t stop my self, analysing his way of paying attention to what he listen. My observation was: He is spontaneous, He is confident, He is quick in counter-questioning.  He is brilliant at this age                                     But He pays attention to actual details? NO. he pays attention to literal meaning. Curiosity is different then counter-questioning. There is thin line. Maybe with time, when kids learn to pay attention to meaning of the phrase, they get the real idea behind such saying. Can we actually teach them? Is exam or remembering details can teach that? My mind swings to some real-life examples where in few of them struggle with wisdom vs knowledg...

#bookpublish   #kidsStorybook Happy to share about my first book 'Majani Shishukathao' is published by Gurjar Prakashan Ahmedabad. proud to share that Gujarat Literature Academy has help me publishing this book. Can't manage book launch in library or with kids but happy to share the joy with friends  :) I shared my first story on my Gujarati blog and from there, well-known writer Lata Hirani has motivated me to keep writing my imagination with kids. It was fun. But book format would have not been possible without her motivation and guidance. I never dreamt to write kids literature, but by God grace it’s a reality now. I am deeply thankful to my kids, my both parents, Latamasi, Gurjar prakashan, Gujarat literature academy & Evidyalay team. 🙏 https://www.amazon.in/MAJANI-SHISHUKATHAO-HIRA…/…/8193915666 https://hirals.wordpress.com/2015/07/05/majaanikhisakoli/

If we see anyone with behavior problems, It means there is unseen or unspoken stress. If we can’t see the reason for their stress or can’t help with root-cause, let us make a habit of reassuring that person that all will be fine, I am always there for you. We always give this secure feeling to our friends or when someone speak their heart in tears. but we do judge our loved ones or relatives, neighbor for their behavior. Especially these days, job stress, covid etc is impacting our mental well-being. On top of that if vitamin deficiency or hormonal changes may make it worse. What can we do? 1)     Let us be friend for all and radiate security feelings for everyone. It is more then enough for anyone who is in stress, feel strength to deal with their stress. 2)     Behavior problems hardly need any advice. They need understanding, unconditional love, acceptance, bit of spiritual practice and security feeling. 3)     Remember: More close relatio...